A Thorn in My Side Since I Was Eleven: A Gynecomastia Consult, Nearly Verbatim

Black and white editorial photograph for gynecomastia commentary by Dr. Frank Agullo, MD, FACS.

He came in on a Friday morning between a painter and a car negotiation. He had been almost two ninety back in 2017. He was down about a hundred pounds and going to the gym two or three times a week. And the chest had not moved.

I am publishing this consult nearly as it happened, identifiers removed, because men ask me these exact questions and almost nobody answers them out loud.

Him: This has been a thorn in my side since I was about 11 or 12 years old.

Me: “The problem is that we have a considerable amount of sagging. If I just did lipo, obviously you remove the volume, but it would still be sagging. So I don’t think you want that.”

Me: “Unfortunately, the trade off is the only way to do it is really with a scar. So I would have to put a scar right underneath the fold. And it would go to about here. And with that, I would be able to remove the tissue and the fat and the breast tissue, and then we would use the nipple. I would take it off completely, and then put it back on like a graft. Because I don’t think even with the tightening lasers, I don’t think it’s going to spring back. Especially this side.”

Him: How flat will it be?

Me: “It’ll be completely flat.”

Me: “And that’s why I recommend doing the lipo on the sides, because otherwise it’s going to look like you have a side breast. Because you won’t have anything here.”

The tummy tuck came with it

He had already been told he was a candidate. He was.

Me: “So you are a good candidate for a tummy tuck. The incision goes here. It will remove some of the fat on the mons and it’ll also lift it up. And the scar is going to go to where the fold ends. So it’s going to go to about right here where this fold ends.”

Me: “With that, we’ll be able to remove pretty much all the skin from here down. And then I’ll use this skin, and that’s the one we’re going to pull down. Look at your muscles. If there’s any separation, we’ll put them back together. But you’ll have a nice, tight, flat abdomen.”

Him: Does it make sense to do everything all together?

Me: “Yes. Because really the chest is not going to add any recovery. So you have that advantage of just that one recovery, and you’re done. Number one, it’s safe because we’re still under six hours, which is most important. And then it becomes a little less expensive, because the first hour of surgery is the most expensive.”

Me: “If we did it together, the surgery would be about four and a half to five hours, general anesthesia. It is in and out. You can go home the same day.”

Recovery, and the two drains

Me: “Recovery wise, you’re looking at about two weeks, mostly from the tummy, to get back to normal activity, driving, things like that. And then six weeks where you can go back to exercise, lifting, pretty much back to normal without any restrictions.”

Me: “We would have drains, both in the chest, one on each side. Those are going to come out pretty quick, four to seven days. Then the tummy, those can take a little longer. It could be seven to fourteen days.”

Me: “You’ll have your garments. I do recommend doing lymphatic massages. We have a tech here. And it helps get the swelling down a lot quicker, especially in the areas of liposuction. It helps avoid the fibrosis and bumpiness.”

The question men do not think to ask

Him: The only thing recovery wise I was concerned with, I have three dogs.

Me: “Do you have somebody to help you at home?”

Him: No.

Me: “So then is somebody going to bring you to the surgery?”

Him: I’d probably come by myself.

Me: “So then I would keep you overnight, because we can’t send you home like that. And then in the morning, we do have a service that can take you back home. My nurse will visit you the day after you stay overnight, to help you shower and how to take care of the drains and go over all the instructions again. You can extend those visits, or there’s also a third party we work with a lot that can keep coming in to check on you, and even help you with food and transportation.”

Me: “You would probably want to board your dogs for at least a while.”

Then, because it was true: “We had a male patient that had a facelift and we didn’t find out until after the surgery that he had 25 cats. So he would come to his post op and he would have scratches, and we were like, no. No.”

Why he was there at all

Him: I’ll go to the gym, but then I get really discouraged. I get to a certain point, like, oh, this is good. And then it’s not going to tighten.

Me: “We can take care of that for you.”

My exam note from that morning: bilateral gynecomastia, no dominant masses, ptosis worse on the right, right breast bigger than the left, a lot of excess skin and subcutaneous tissue in the lateral chest, abdomen, upper back and lower back, an abdominal pannus continuing laterally, and some degree of rectus diastasis.

The takeaway

Gynecomastia is not a weight problem and the gym does not fix it. If the skin has been stretched for twenty years, or stretched by a hundred pounds and then emptied, it will not recoil, and no laser changes that. On a chest with real sagging, the honest answer is a scar under the fold, and often a nipple graft. On a firm chest with fatty fullness, liposuction with skin tightening can be enough.

I am a double board-certified plastic surgeon, certified by both the American Board of Plastic Surgery and the American Board of Surgery, a Mayo Clinic fellowship alum, and I teach plastic surgery as a Clinical Associate Professor at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center.

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You Lost a Hundred Pounds. The Skin Did Not Get the Memo: A Surgeon on the Body Lift

Black and white editorial portrait illustrating body contouring after major weight loss. Surgical commentary by Dr. Frank Agullo, MD, FACS.

Some of the most rewarding consultations I have are also, for the patient, some of the most maddening.

Sixty pounds gone. Eighty. A hundred. Bariatric surgery, a GLP-1, or sheer stubborn discipline, it does not matter which. They finished the part most people never do. And then they are sitting across from me genuinely upset, because the skin will not play along.

Here is the truth I hand them, pulled from real consultations and anonymized. The skin is not a willpower problem. It is a tissue problem. Willpower does not fix tissue.

Why the Skin Will Not Go Back

Stretch skin that far for that long and the elastic fibers give out. You can hit a beautiful weight, carve out a tiny waist, and still have skin hanging off the breasts, the belly, the inner thighs, the arms.

No squat program reverses that. The only thing that removes loose skin is surgery. I say it bluntly because I have watched too many people blame themselves for something that was never theirs to fix at the gym in the first place. That is precisely the work body contouring after major weight loss was built for.

What I Do for the Breasts

After massive weight loss the breast usually still has volume. It is just hanging very low. Most of the time a lift alone gives a beautiful result, no implant needed. I bring the nipple up, take out the excess skin, and because your skin has lost its elasticity, I lay a mesh on the inside so the result no longer leans on skin that cannot hold. Skip that mesh and everything drifts back down over the years.

When the breasts hang extremely low, I usually hold off on the implant during the lift. Moving the nipple a long distance up while adding an implant in the same sitting can choke the blood supply to that nipple, and that is not a gamble I take. The implant is an easy second step later. One breast almost always outsizes the other, so I trim the bigger side to match.

Standard Tummy Tuck or All the Way Around?

With a standard tummy tuck I make a low incision, pull out the excess skin, draw everything down tight, and repair the muscles up the middle and along the sides for that corset effect and a smaller waist. Liposuction goes with it.

After massive weight loss, though, the looseness rarely stays in front. It wraps around the sides and the back. So I often steer toward the circumferential procedure, also called a lower body lift. The incision carries all the way around, which lets me pull the skin down in front while lifting the outer thigh and the buttock in the same pass. When the laxity is not just frontal, this is the most complete option on the table.

If your laxity is I usually recommend
Mostly in the front A tummy tuck with liposuction
Wrapping around the sides and back A circumferential lower body lift
Hanging low at the breasts A breast lift, often with internal mesh
Loose on the inner thighs A thigh lift, staged thoughtfully

The Honest Tradeoff on Stubborn Laxity

The circumferential lift pulls everything down and in. But carry a lot of side-to-side laxity and you may still have some looseness up top when it heals. Erasing that completely takes a vertical incision, one that gathers everything in like a corset.

Most people would rather not wear that scar, because it is harder to hide. So I almost always park it as an optional second stage, done later only if the looseness truly bothers you. I am not in the habit of talking patients into scars they do not need.

And the Inner Thighs

Real excess skin on the inner thighs? Liposuction alone will not touch it. I run an incision in the groin crease that continues just below the buttock and pull everything up. Want it tighter still? That means a vertical scar down the inner thigh, which I again hold in reserve.

Let me be upfront. The thigh lift is the hardest of these to recover from. Right where the tension pulls upward, the incision tends to open a little, almost every single time. The good news is we just keep it covered with gauze, it closes on its own in about two to three weeks, and more often than not we never even have to revise the scar.

Why I Stage It This Way

I am double board-certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery and the American Board of Surgery, a Mayo Clinic plastic surgery fellowship alum, and a Clinical Associate Professor of Plastic Surgery at Texas Tech University Health Sciences Center Paul L. Foster School of Medicine. Body contouring after massive weight loss is never one operation that fits everyone. It is a plan. I would rather hand you a safe, powerful result today and keep the more aggressive scars in my back pocket than chase perfection in a single marathon surgery and gamble with your healing.

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If you have lost the weight and you are ready to deal with the skin, let us build a plan together.

For the patient-facing version, see the companion post on agulloplasticsurgery.com. For the El Paso treatment menu, see the version on swplasticsurgery.com.

Call (915) 590-7900, text 1-866-814-0038, or book online at agulloplasticsurgery.com. #StayBeautiful.

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